I'd rather you ask

I'd rather you ask; the struggles, how I feel, how it felt, if I'm okay, if I need to talk , if I'm coping okay, how it happened, what I had to cope with..

I get the random 'I'm scared I'll ask the wrong thing' there is nothing wrong to ask, it's my life and I'm open about it, it's who I am, it's something I can't change and I'd rather you knew about the way my brain actually works, how my emotions are messed up, how I literally need to think about everything I do to be able to cope with being a regular adult.. 

Everything is fine to ask unless you're going to be stupid and upset me.